Hype Malaysia
  • Hype Picks
    • Go
    • Eats
    • Style
    • Streams
    • Concerts
  • Celebs
    • K-pop
  • Music
    • Reviews
    • Interviews & Features
  • Movies & TV
    • Movies
    • TV
    • Features
  • Lifestyle
    • Tech
    • Travels
    • News
No Result
View All Result
Hype Malaysia
No Result
View All Result
Home Lifestyle

6 Friendship Red Flags You Should Nevah Ignore!

by Xuen-Li
May 30, 2023
26
SHARES
Share on FacebookShare on Whatsapp

Whether we like it or not, friendships come and go. Losing a friend can be just as heartbreaking as a break up. Most of us have probably lost touch with a close friend or severed ties with others due to a misunderstanding or someone crossing a line.

The truth is that not all friendships are good and healthy, and it’s easy to ignore red flags in a friendship because they’re the ones we trust and love. Who wants to believe that their friends are toxic? While it can be difficult to part ways with some people, it is important to examine our friendships and recognize when someone is not treating the relationship with respect and integrity. Here are 6 red flags in friendships that you shouldn’t ignore:

They Don’t Respect Your Boundaries

Source: Giphy

“Boundaries” seems to be a very popular term these days, but what does it look like in friendships? And how do you know when someone is disrespecting yours? To give an example, you have a friend who loves to look through your phone whenever you’re hanging out. Despite the many times you’ve told them that you don’t like it, they don’t stop, a.k.a, not respecting the boundaries you had set up. And if they continue to do the same thing, despite you clearly stating what you’re not comfortable with, it’s time to cut them off. That’s why it’s so important to establish boundaries early on in the friendship, and be open and honest about who you are so that you can connect in a healthy way.

They Never Reach Out To You

5 Clues They’re Not Into You So You Can Stop Wasting Time!
Source: Giphy

If you’re the only one that’s asking to hang out, and they respond as if they’re doing you a favor, leave. Say you have a friend who would rarely respond to your texts, not to mention in your friends groupchat. And whenever they do respond, it’s never a solid answer, or they would respond with a “I guess we can meet up on Friday, but I have to leave early. And I might be late too.” Sound familiar? It can be draining to force yourself to maintain a friendship. More often than not, people stay in friendships that they’ve outgrown due to a sense of obligation, or in other words, for ol’ times’ sake, when in reality, the friendship only feels forced, which can leave you feeling empty and exhausted rather than energized after spending time with them.

They Don’t Respect Your Time

Source: Giphy

We all have that one friend who’s never on time, not to mention the ones who blow you off at the last minute without any explanation. And no, we’re not talking about the occasional change of plans because their car broke down, or that they got food poisoning. We’re talking about the friend who’s almost never on time, never apologizes for being late, and for the life of them can NEVER confirm plans or just keep cancelling on you. They don’t deserve your time or energy, so just ditch them.

They’re Only Your Friend When It’s Convenient

Source: Giphy

If they suddenly hit you up after months of non-communication, and they just so happen to be in your city and they need a place to crash, they might be using you! The most telling sign that someone uses you as a friend of convenience is that they ALWAYS need something from you. It can be actual help like asking you to lend them money, and favors, or emotional support and personal advice (that they never seem to take). While it’s natural to lean on your friends for help and advice, it’s not normal if they only show up in times of need. Most importantly, will they be around when you’re the one who needs help? You don’t need them in your life, since they’re only ever around when they need something from you.

6 Easy Ways To Keep Your Relationship Strong, Fun & Mostly Drama-Free!

They Can’t Apologize

Source: Giphy

It’s normal for friends to have conflicts from time to time, whether it’s one of those silly arguments, or perhaps something more serious, like you accidentally revealed something private about your friend that they weren’t cool with. It’s okay to mess up, and it’s bound to happen in even the healthiest of friendships. However, if your friend has wronged you, but is unable to apologize sincerely, or not willing to own up to their mistakes, it’s going to be hard to trust them and depend on them down the line. And even when they do apologize, it’s always along the lines of “I’m sorry that you’re offended, but…” That’s not a genuine apology, that’s just them finding excuses to justify their behaviour.

They Only Talk About Themselves

Source: Giphy

Do you have a friend who would go on and on about their life, but never asks about yours? And when you’re finally able to get a word in, they would interrupt you, and somehow make the conversation about them instead! In some unhealthy friendship dynamics, it may seem like they’re always the center of attention, and you were merely a supportive character on the sidelines. While your friend constantly cutting you off in conversation could be a sign of poor communication, you should keep in mind that a true friend would be interested in your life and would want to hear about all your successes and struggles, even if it’s as “boring” or “mundane” as telling them about your day at work. So if you find a friend of yours displaying this type of  behaviour, try communicating to them and telling them how you feel, and if they’re not receptive to it, at least you’ll know exactly what kind of friend really they are.

friendship red flagsfriendshipsRed Flagsrelationship advicetoxic friendships
https://lomp.at/df0qn
Share10SendTweet7Share

Follow us on Instagram, Facebook or Telegram for more updates and breaking news. 

FOLLOW THE HYPE

Lifestyle

Art in Harmony: SamaSeni Brings Together 12 Artists In A Celebration Of Creativity & Connection

by Dean Zaini
October 23, 2025

SamaSeni is more than just an art exhibition. It is a heartfelt gathering of artists who share the same passion...

Read more
Lifestyle

Woodford Reserve Brings Back “The Wonderful Race” To Crown Malaysia’s All-Star Old Fashioned

Woodford Reserve is back with the third edition of "The Wonderful Race," a nationwide hunt for Malaysia's top bartenders. This...

Read more
by Dean Zaini
October 21, 2025
Source: Facebook/IOI City Mall
Featured

(Photos) Deepavali 2025: Light Up Your Spirit With These Dazzling Mall Decorations

As Deepavali draws near, Malaysia once again comes alive with radiant lights, intricate kolams, and vibrant cultural performances that capture...

Read more
by Melissa
October 18, 2025
Fashion/ Beauty

Timberland Brings A Fresh Urban Edge To Suria KLCC With Its New Global Store Concept

Timberland, the global lifestyle brand known for its iconic Yellow Boots and outdoor heritage, has officially opened its brand-new store...

Read more
by Dean Zaini
October 17, 2025
Lifestyle

A Full Day To Pause, Breathe & Recharge At The Women Wellness Festival 2.0

After a sold-out debut earlier this year, the Women Wellness Festival returns on 8th November 2025 at Parc Subang, promising...

Read more
by Dean Zaini
October 14, 2025
Lifestyle

vivo V60 Lite 5G Launches In Malaysia For Nonstop Fun & Stunning Night Shots

vivo Malaysia has rolled out the vivo V60 Lite 5G, a phone made for people who never press pause. Sleek,...

Read more
by Dean Zaini
October 10, 2025
Image: Freepik
Lifestyle

From Discounts To Cashbacks: Here Are 5 Ways To Earn & Save With ShopeePay

It goes without saying that everyone likes a good deal. Rather than spending all  your hard-earned money in one go,...

Read more
by Kiran P Ganesan
October 9, 2025
Lifestyle

Renaissance Kuala Lumpur Hosts ‘Coffee Date’ in Celebration of Brew with Benefits Campaign

Renaissance Kuala Lumpur Hotel & Convention Centre recently hosted an exclusive Coffee Date activation at R Bar on 30th September...

Read more
by Shangkari
October 6, 2025
Load More


TOP STORIES TODAY

  1. 1

    “Please Protect My Children”: Korean Influencer Speaks Out On Indonesian Wife’s Cheating Allegations

  2. 2

    Major Road Closures As Kuala Lumpur Enters Total Lockdown For ASEAN Summit 2025

  3. 3

    “Just For 1 Day!”: ZUS Coffee Closing Operation This Thursday In Celebration Of Latest Milestone

  4. 4

    ALPHA: Meet The 7 Members Of Astro’s New Boy Group From “Big Stage Alpha”

  5. 5

    From Discounts To Cashbacks: Here Are 5 Ways To Earn & Save With ShopeePay

Malaysia’s live-wire for the latest news, trends, and entertainment is finally here. We are your calendar, your grapevine, your comic relief, your post-event coverage, and your celebrity stalker. Did we also mention that we are also your gateway to the world?



Contact us: newsdesk@hype.my



  • About
  • Advertise
  • Jobs
  • Terms
  • Privacy Policy

©2025 Vijandren Ramadass. All Rights Reserved.

No Result
View All Result
  • Hype Picks
    • Go
    • Eats
    • Style
    • Streams
    • Concerts
  • Celebs
    • K-pop
  • Music
    • Reviews
    • Interviews & Features
  • Movies & TV
    • Movies
    • TV
    • Features
  • Lifestyle
    • Tech
    • Travels
    • News

©2025 Vijandren Ramadass. All Rights Reserved.

No Result
View All Result
  • Hype Picks
    • Go
    • Eats
    • Style
    • Streams
    • Concerts
  • Celebs
    • K-pop
  • Music
    • Reviews
    • Interviews & Features
  • Movies & TV
    • Movies
    • TV
    • Features
  • Lifestyle
    • Tech
    • Travels
    • News

©2025 Vijandren Ramadass. All Rights Reserved.