Before we say our supposedly unbreakable marriage vows, we need to find the right relationship for us. Well, this 21-year-old girl is convinced she’s found the man of her dreams. Most might agree, if it weren’t for the fact that he is 13 years older and married.
Recently, a netizen took to Facebook page Xuan Plays, to share her romantic story anonymously. In her post, she justified why she’d chosen this 34-year-old man over her boyfriend. Unfortunately, she’s convinced this man will be willing to leave his married life for her and has already broken up with her ex-beau!
“We met in (a) real estate (company),” the girl shared. “I liked everything about him.” She added that he was always sweet-talking her, which made her happy but her boyfriend had a tendency to ignore her as he was focused on work and career-climbing. “He (the married man) always finds ways to make me happy while my boyfriend just talks big and ignores my emotions,” she alleged.
The girl stated that her boyfriend does treat her well, but she loves the other more. “In the beginning, I always reminded myself that I should not interact too much with others of the opposite sex. But, the more I (exercised self-control), the more I couldn’t help falling in love with this (man),” she said. The girl added that her feelings grew to a point where she felt comfortable having sex with him.
“I know it’s not fair to my boyfriend, but I can’t help myself. He (the married man) gives me the sense of security I need and has time to accompany me, coaxes me and hangs around me. He has money, a Civic (Honda) and is very gentle (with) me,” she shared. The girl added she was certain the married man would give up his marriage for her as she loves him and feels she is loved by him.
“Although I met the right person at the wrong time, as long as I persevere, I believe I can achieve a positive (relationship) with him. I don’t mind that he’s 13 years older than me. I don’t mind that he’s (crooked) or waiting for him to divorce,” she said. “For him, I (cold-shouldered) my boyfriend, forcing him to break up (with me) because I believe (the married man) is worth it. I don’t mind what people around me think, it doesn’t matter to me at all.”
Netizens didn’t quite agree with the girl as several took to mocking her choices. “I wanted to laugh when I saw (the word) Civic,” one said, with another helpfully urging: “Great, let your boyfriend go.” Some felt she was being naïve about her budding relationship. “Too immature!” one exclaimed. “Next, you’ll be living your life while crying!” Another said: “Too short sighted. Good luck to you.”
Others wished her well in her romantic endeavors, citing she had found her “true love” and saying they were glad she’s happy. A few even expressed their amazement at Honda’s “power”, claiming their tagline; “Honda, the power of dreams” was true.
Well, we aren’t sure how things will work out for the 21-year-old, we can only hope she’s making choices she’ll be happy with. After all, we all know that relationships can be very tricky, more so when they aren’t our own.
Sources: Facebook, China Press
