As the year comes to a close, its about time that we start thinking about our New Year’s resolutions. There are plenty of reasons for you to set some good New Year’s resolutions to achieve the life you want. And just like how eating healthy can improve your overall lifestyle, having a good sex life will also make your 2023 a whole lot better.
Just like regular New Year’s resolutions, sex resolutions are basically a set of goals you set for yourself based on what you want to change or improve on (sexually, of course). However, this doesn’t mean you have to jump straight into threesomes or crazy sexcapades. It can be changing the way you approach the bedroom, or introducing a new sex toy. Basically, anything that will make your sex life more pleasurable and comfortable for both you and your partner. No idea what to put onto your list? Here are just a few suggestions:
Act Out As Many Fantasies As You Can
Yup, and we mean as many as you can. Sex fantasies can involve anything from role play, costumes, kinks and fetishes, to sex toys, or anything that gets you or your partner going. Let your imagination run wild and lose yourself in scenarios and characters. Don’t hesitate to fulfill all your Professor/Student roleplay fantasies in the new year!
Caution: Slippery When Wet. Take it from the bed to the bath – hell, f*ck in the sea if you want to (not recommended)! Keep things interesting by introducing toys – and no, we’re not talking about rubber duckies. Use toys that work underwater and won’t give you a big splash. We recommend using silicon-based lube to keep things smooth and pleasurable.
This can be anything from moaning to your heart’s content to calling your partner a filthy, filthy, wh*re (with their consent, of course). Let’s be real: Knowing that your partner is enjoying whatever you’re doing to them can be very sexually gratifying. It can be as simple as screaming “YES!” So, talk to your partner about what they like in bed, and if they’re okay with any sort of dirty talk that you wanna try out, give it a go!
Staying safe is an essential part to having a healthy sex life. However, regular STI testing is still not a standard practise for many people when it comes to sexual health. The reality is, most STIs are asymptomatic. You could have them and potentially pass them on to someone else and have no symptoms. There’s no shame in getting tested – you’re not only protecting yourself but other people involved as well. Remember, STDs are a b*tch to deal with!
If you’ve been with your partner long enough, sex can get repetitive. That’s why you gotta go back to the basics and try out some new positions that will rock your world. If you take a look at the Kama Sutra (or any other sexual position book), you’ll find a plethora of p*ssybilities for every sort of relationship and body. And don’t assume you won’t be able to recreate them; our bodies can do incredible things when we’re horny!