Recently, a woman took to the Facebook page “UTAR Confessions 2021/2022” to confess that she’s been cheating on her soon-to-be husband. In her post, the woman detailed her one-way open relationship.
Despite being in a happy relationship with her beau for over 5 years, she and a male colleague (nicknamed B) have developed more than a friendship and they’ve even taken things to the next level.
It’s understood that this lady has plans to tie the knot with her boyfriend in the near future. Having said that, she wants to continue this fling with B. According to her, somehow cheating on her boyfriend has in turned strengthened their relationship. How so though?
Of course, as adults, they realised that there are consequences to having an affair. This controversial post garnered many criticism from the public. Many warned her that she’ll eventually get burned when playing with fire. What if she contracts AIDS or STDs? Isn’t she putting her boyfriend at risk? “Or maybe her boyfriend is bad in bed, and that’s why she needs to find pleasure somewhere else,” someone commented.
Following the criticism from the first post, the same woman wrote a follow-up post to address the controversial topic. In her opinion, everyone has their own moral compass and ethical standards. Therefore, one shouldn’t impose their views unto others.
In defending her actions, the woman explained that she doesn’t consider her fling with B as cheating, since sex is only physical pleasure and there’s no real “love” involved. “My fiancé doesn’t need to know about my affair because he’s been very happy for the past 5 years,” the lady wrote.
Source: UTAR’s Facebook.
