Malaysian YouTuber and influencer Qiu Wen (秋雯) has had a very busy year. She broke up with fellow YouTuber Lim Shang Jin (林尚进) early this year. Shortly after, Lim supposedly started dating Gatita Yan (Tong Lee Yan) while she swore off dating “internet celebrities”. There was also the fiasco with Yang Bao Bei (杨宝贝, YBB)’s scandal, which both were involved in.
While Qiu Wen has been busy with her career and life; for instance, she got a house, Lim has been ‘honeymooning’ with Gatita. If there were any doubts as to whether the YouTuber and influencer has gotten over her ex, her most recent post certainly says so!
Yesterday (13th December), Qiu Wen made a philosophical post on Facebook. “Meeting the wrong person will consume you, meeting the right person will heal you,” she wrote. “The best self-discipline for adults is to prevent losses in time. People have obsessions, but you can’t cling to it.”
Netizens agreed with her post, but some felt she was actually talking about ex-boyfriend Lim. “(Lim) got shot while lying down,” one netizen ridiculed. Another supported her decision to break up with him, saying: “You deserve better.” Some even blatantly asked her if she was talking about Lim.
Photos of Gatita and Lim being together can be found littered on their socials. They often post sweet-looking photos together and often seem very intimate with one another. For instance, during local influencers Diorlynn Ong (翁依玲) and Wilbur Ng (黃勁達)’s wedding, the two were seen holding hands. They had also been to the Maldives together for a vacation.
Fans often assume the two are together, based on their interactions in videos and photos. However, it may be a surprise to know that neither Gatita nor Lim have confirmed their relationship officially!
Yet, this doesn’t seem to matter to Qiu Wen. Whether they are together officially or not, she has definitely moved on in life, and is perfectly happy to tell her ex so.