Growing up, everyone makes it sounds like sex is the most wonderful thing to ever happen to anyone. Teenagers giggle about it, young adults freely discuss it and adults… well. That’s how they get babies.
Most of the time, people usually complain that they can’t get enough sex. However, is it possible to have too much sex? According to this Taiwanese netizen, the answer is yes. He recently made a post on Facebook about having too much sex with his girlfriend, and asks netizens for advice on how to stop.
The netizen made his case and plea on Facebook group “Explosive Commune Public Edition (爆廢公社公開版)”. Apparently before dating, he enjoyed regular sex with his current girlfriend. However, after they got together, he soon got tired of having sex every single day. His girlfriend is perfectly fine with it, but he isn’t anymore.
“Now I am very bored, (but) she still enjoys it every day,” he complained. Apparently, she visits his house daily to have sex and he has no idea how to make an excuse to avoid it. Even when they are outside, the girlfriend will shamelessly try to get him off in public. She will touch his upper body and once, when they were watching a movie, her hand dipped below the belt. After dates, they will spend the night together as well.
After enduring it for so long, the netizen is clearly at the end of his rope. However, he doesn’t want to break up with her. He just wants a solution to not have so much sex. “I’m not cheating (on her),” he explained. “And it’s not that I don’t love her, but I really just don’t want to (have sex) so often, that’s it.”
Some netizens were sympathetic, while others couldn’t understand why having so much sex was a problem. “Don’t like to have sex, (who’s your) girlfriend?” one asked. “(If you) don’t like to do (it), don’t work so hard.” Another shared his grievance. “Your problem is similar to mine, having sex for a long period of time can get boring,” they commented.
One netizen actually suggested an excuse. “Say you are religious and you cannot have premarital sex,” they said. Well, that excuse would only work had they not engaged in sex yet. It might be too farfetched to suddenly claim to be religious, no?
Well, this netizen’s problem is certainly unique. Hopefully, he can find a way out of this mess, although it might be better to actually talk with his girlfriend instead of consistently giving excuses. After all, communication is the key to every relationship.
Source: China Press
