Miscarriages are the worst thing that could happen to expecting parents. Some people need their time off away from other people, some would want to be surrounded by loved ones, while others have to go on about their day.
For Jessie J, she indeed is as strong as her vocals are. She announced her miscarriage, which took us by surprise, last night through her private Instagram account.
From her post, we know how fast a situation could change; in just a few hours, after one scan, excited laughter turned into emotional break downs. The “Price Tag” singer announced how the fetus inside of her is now lifeless after she went through her third pregnancy scan. She broke the devastating news the day after she had gotten it; right a few hours before her concert in Los Angeles. She made the revelation through social media rather than in person stating how it ‘feels safer’.
Despite the traumatic incident, she has decided to continue with the gig. That was also another reason why she broke the news through Instagram; on what according to her caption, to avoid “a tearful emotional speech explaining her energy (on stage).” Other than that, she explained her reasons on still wanting to perform, which was not to “avoid the grief or the process” because to the legendary singer, performing on stage is a form of self-therapy.
In one of her paragraphs, she said that she was grateful to be given a chance to experience pregnancy because it was all she ever wanted, and she has stated along the lines of how she will try getting pregnant again in the future. She mentioned how she resonates with all the women around the world who have been through such pain. She describes the feeling of miscarriage as, “the loneliest feeling in the world.”
Our condolences goes out all the way to Jessie J for the lost of her child. She is a strong woman, and we hope she gets through this stronger than she ever was.