Few things are more unpleasant than a webcam video meeting – and when stripping is involved, the situation can become excruciatingly embarrassing. It appears to be the case that while we’ve become comfortable with doing almost everything via technology – we even simulate long-distance dates and relationships using FaceTime and Zoom – we haven’t quite gotten the hang of cybersex.
Virtual sex or cyber sex, is any sexual activity that takes place online and that includes things like video chat, phone sex, sexting, long-distance sexual play made possible by sex gadgets and technology, and even some types of interactive pornography. If you think it’s weird to have online sex, don’t be. It’s very much like in-person sex, but you just do it online (and obviously with someone you’re comfortable with).
The thing is, cyber sex can be a scary thing to do because you feel as though you’re being recorded or something. If you’re learning how to have virtual sex for the first time, or would like to improve a little, keep reading, cause you might open up to a new sexual ability.
Set The Mood
As with in-person sex, getting warmed up and setting the mood are essential components of virtual sex. It could seem strange to enter a video chat and start talking right away. Before getting busy, we advise sharing a steamy soundtrack with your lover. Then, to set the mood, give them a tour of your sensual environment. Mention how your perfume smells, how soft your sheets are, what colour your underwear is, etc. Or perhaps you could do something to get the party started, like watch a hot movie together on Netflix Party.
Slowly Check In With Each Other
You don’t have to expose everything or do anything sexy in front of the camera – at first. Keep discussing your requirements as a partnership and consider your own and your partner’s shared hobbies. What fuels them, and similar questions. In time, you might choose to engage in these interactions more deeply or decide to take a vacation from them. Changes in comfort are totally acceptable. At the same time, don’t be overly preoccupied with meeting your own demands; instead, consider your partner’s needs as well.
Leave Your Face Out
Although you’ve been with your partner for many years or you feel super comfortable with them, having sex in-person is totally different from having it virtually, and it can make you feel shy or awkward. In case you’re experiencing crippling self-consciousness while starting an online sex sesh, you can hide your face from the camera if you want to. This will not only help, but also lend an air of mystery. Even though it could seem impersonal, this may create an intense, devoted relationship, especially if the video chatting is with an anonymous lover – more like erotic and mysterious!
Use Emojis
Emojis always make our lives easier, including in sex! In fact, emoji-using couples actually engage in more sexual activity. And it makes sense since you can use images to convey a variety of feelings and wants that you might be too hesitant to mention in words. Also, for those who are timid, making an emoji face is far simpler than displaying your face.
Include Foreplay
In the digital world, foreplay has a somewhat new meaning, but it’s still vital. Before your cybersex date, pique their interest with a cryptic text, a sext while half clothed, or send a flirtatious voice message. As potent as the joyful reward itself, this induces the pleasure of anticipation.
Whisper
Believe us when we say that even in-person sex can make you stutter or feel speechless. The same holds true for online sex as well. Even if you are at a loss for words, you can still be attractive by the way you express something. To make sure they pay close attention to everything you say, you can try muffling your voice with a pillow or by covering your phone with your hand.
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